Saturday, August 2, 2008

Truth never hurt

I always know that nothing beats the truth; and all the years of character moulding at home and from church taught me great deals of being earnest and honest...

Last night an incident happended, i tried to brush it aside on the first instant on the rationale that it will invite nothing but silly questions and maybe a little unhappiness? Just like the chinese saying of paper can never hold the fire, or something more familiar that i learn from the bible that no stone will left unturned. My little efforts of concealing something that's really nothing got exposed, and matter of fact is i was so concious of what it could brings and thus spoiling a good day, i have not a good look at the whole 'thing' myself. It is really such a bad joke i had pulled on myself, till now i am still feeling sore of my own stupidity!

Why did i forget!!??
Very often i witnessed people making mistakes by saying a few white lies to have an easier way out, but very soon found theyselves telling more of it and thus creating cracks and hurts between their relationships with people.
Life's motto should always be a transparent sheet, have a clear concience, thus we will all have a happier self, family and friends.

Last night's incident is a reminder, a sign, that no matter what happens, i shall never take the easier way out. if i need to explain, i will explain, if i need to pause the feel good factors, so be it, i'll have it paused. brushing things aside does not not help, saying a white lie is even worse and out of character, when incidents happen i should and will take up the responsibilties to have it sort out. This is clearly a reminder and indication to stay close to God's straight and narrow path, for without all His teachings and wisdom, i am nothing but like the ash.

So this is it, thankfully for the gentler reminder. i have peace within once again; and with God's help, last night's small hipcupp is going to be the only one off event. :)
cheers! anyone? :)

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